Sometimes, life can feel like an obstacle course in the mud when we’re dealing with the world’s (or maybe our own) darkness and sin. But it’s our friendships that strengthen us during our struggles. No situation is too messy for a friend to step in and help with since “a brother is born for adversity" (Prov. 17:17).

In our darkest hours, wandering through “the valley of the shadow of death,” God’s presence and guidance bring us peace (Ps. 23:4). And once he’s comforted us, we adopt a “take one, pass it down” approach, turning to our friends to comfort them (2 Cor. 1:3-4). It might seem easier and more convenient to rejoice with our friends, but when we also share someone’s sadness (Rom. 12:15), those bonds solidify into long-lasting relationships.

Notice the great friends in Scripture who (sometimes literally!) held up each other’s hands in difficult times (cf. Exod. 17:12). How would those situations have turned out if they were all alone? Sometimes we need help, but other times it’s up to us to step in with gentleness and genuine concern to carry someone’s pack. As Paul reminds us, “bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Gal. 6:2).